I came to my first TurnOn starving and dehydrated. I was so desperate for sex that I was willing to do or try anything. I couldn't even have a conversation with any woman without transmitting the power of my desire. Basically it was like: "I am only talking to you because there might be a chance we can have sex," and I couldn't stop that. Now, after learning to OM, I can have a conversation with a woman and actually put quality attention on her. I can actually listen to her. Yes, I still have my sexual desire for her, yet it is not the primary thing I am transmitting.
OM has helped me become more of the man I want to be. I used to think a complete man was one who could control his emotions and not show them to the world. Now, I think a complete man is one who knows how to have emotions and embrace them.