OM is a practice done between two people that has no goal except to feel what is happening in the moment. OM is not about more climax (yes, Orgasm and Climax are different). It is about expanding the sweet spot of the most pleasurable part of Orgasm. It’s simple and a way to be sexual without all that complicated sex stuff.
A partner will focus on the sensations and movement of their left index finger. The woman being stroked will focus on her clitoris. We find that the more attention a person has at the point of connection, the more sensation and connection they will experience. And because it is a goalless practice, connection can occur without pressure or obligation.
Women often ask this question more than men! OM allows a man to access his innate capacity for sympathetic pleasure (the ability to enjoy the pleasure of their partner). He learns that he never strokes to please her. He strokes for his pleasure and begins to feel her Orgasm in his body. His partner learns to relax and not worry whether or not he is enjoying himself. OM then becomes one of mutual enjoyment and connection.
It sounds mysterious at first – but the truth is it works. The disease scurvy killed millions of sea travellers for centuries. It wasn’t until 1932 that the problem was revealed to be a deficiency of Vitamin C. Such a simple solution to a seemingly complex set of problems. Like Vitamin C, Orgasm is a nutrient that has been missing from the standard human diet for centuries. It relieves that feeling of “something is missing” and replaces it with a sense of fullness where Desire becomes your compass.
Tap into the “limbic network” of human connection. OM is a life-hack that plugs you in to that deep undercurrent of love, information, and energy that is our human birthright to bathe and rejuvenate inside of. Slip into the rabbit hole that you intuitively know will bring you into a deeper relationship with yourself, the people around you, your environment, and the mysterious and potent realms of your sexuality.
Our vision for the future is that one day very soon everyone who wants it will have full access to the technology of Orgasmic Meditation. And through OM, all of us will have access to the enjoyment of Orgasm. Through Orgasm, we’ll be fully restored to our natural human state: the state of connection.