Hi, I'm Martin from Copenhagen, Denmark I was 42 and 3.5 years celibate, by choice, ready to never have a healthy relationship with a woman, when I was introduced to OM.
Why celibate and so gloomy in my outlook? Well, I grew up with a single, borderline, incest survivor mother - so, to say the least. I had had a rocky start with women on this planet.
Not feeling safe around them and thinking men's sexuality ruins women's lives.
I had gone through a lot of relationships (100+) trying to get to those deep and limiting beliefs about women and sex - really to no avail. As I had not really transformed anything deep. But more or less just confirmed my beliefs, by choosing one messed up women after another.
There I was, close to 40 and sick and tired of all the drama, pain and meaningless sex. I decided to throw in the towel.
Why did I decide to learn to OM?
In September of 2015 I was on a road trip through California and went to a Turn-on event in LA. Having no idea about OM, but that changed quickly and there was something about it, that sense deep in my heart that this might just be absolutely right for me, that made me sign up for the intro course the following Saturday. To cut it short - my road trip never left LA.
I'm now 6 months into my practice and I can only say that I'm so unbelievably greatful for following my heart that night at turn-on Venice. OM'ing has, in ways I'm still trying to get my head around, transformed my life. No shit... There is not a single relationship in my life that has not been blesses with more authenticity, connection, warmth and personal power. That alone is worth the journey.
But just as importantly, I'm not 'home free' in the sexual relationship department - but I no longer doubt that I will get to experience a healthy, turned on, delicious relationship with a woman in this life.
And for that, I am eternally grateful.