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It's Okay To Be Bad

Mar 28, 2012
nnBy Robert K. nnIt’s okay to be badnIt’s okay to let your desires outnThose you keep, deepnInside the shoebox of your mental closetnnWhat’s in your secret closet?nAre there whips and chains?nDildo’s and vibrators?nOr….nnIt’s okay to be badnIts okay to feel all your desires insidenWhat is “bad” is …

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The Conspiracy of Silence

Mar 27, 2012
nnBy Robert K. nnOne thing that I’ve always prided myself on is what I call my “political” mind. I can sit in a meeting and notice and understand all the political agendas that are going on. While I would never claim to know them all, I can usually see what is going on beneath the surface with …

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Noticing the Obvious

Mar 26, 2012
nBy Justine D.nnNoticing the Obvious is a potent exercise for developing your capacity for simplicity and attention.nnWhen looking at things in the world, most of us are conditioned to see, and then immediately layer an interpretation over what we see. We see a face and automatically categorize it …

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The Clench

Mar 24, 2012
nnBy Joanna V.nnWhen I started OMing (August 2010), I was nervous about everything. I was nervous to take my pants off. I waited until the very last minute before actually unbuttoning my jeans. I was nervous of what “shape” my pussy was in. Was it shaved…hairs out of place? I was nervous about …

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Orgasm as a Gateway to Women’s Intuition

Mar 22, 2012
nnBy Nirmala N. nnMost people, men and women, tend to get their best ideas at the most unexpected and strangely mundane of times: in the shower, on the toilet, after waking up from a night of dreamless slumber. Like a bolt out of the blue, our Eureka moments are rarely the result of hours of …

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Waiting for the Right Moment

Mar 20, 2012
nBy Nirmala N.nnI used to love Argentine tango. In many ways, the push and pull of this perennially seductive dance is an example of the dynamics that make male and female relationships so fascinating. A man leads, and a woman follows—at least, at first glance. A more perspicacious gazer can see …

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Host a Desire Party

Mar 19, 2012
nnBy Rosa M.nnWant something fun to do with your partner or with your girlfriends this weekend? Try something we love to do that builds connection, intimacy, and inspiration...nnHost your own desire party!nnSingles, you can do this by inviting your friends over and hosting your desire party a long …

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A Blog? No Thank You

Mar 17, 2012
nnBy Rachel C. nnI don't write. I don't like to write. I'm not good at it. At least that's what I've been telling myself for the last 8 years. My very identity is built around the fact that i don't write. So you can imagine my surprise when I walked into the office on Friday and N says to me, …

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Moments of Truth

Mar 15, 2012
nnBy Aubrey F.nnSomeone says to me, “No one wants to give you adjustments or tell you the truth because they’re scared of you.”nnAn avalanche of shame begins to crumble inside my body. Rocks of discomfort fall from inside my chest into the pit of my belly. My face gets hot and bright red. I look …

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A Frame

Mar 14, 2012
nBy Rachel C. nn'Yes,' I reply, 'It's true.'nn'Well,' he says, 'I just did.'nn nn nnA 'frame' is a term we use in Orgasmic Meditation. It is a moment in time during your OM, when you felt a physical sensation in your body. This includes temperature, texture, motion, pressure, color, and speed. …

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