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Coming from Full

Apr 20, 2012
nnBy Lianna L.nnWe pull up in front of my house. “I had a really good time,” I say.n“Me too.” He says.nnWe kiss, an awkward goodbye kiss. Lips smashing together, neither of us wants to feel too much. He has work to get to, and I have my day to start. I want to suggest that we play hooky, drive …

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The Whisper

Apr 17, 2012
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Obsession. Control. Desire.

Apr 13, 2012
nnBy Amy J. nnI know control and obsession well. They have been close companions of my desire for sometime. Not friends exactly, but they always travel together. I can't tell you exactly when they kicked in, but it was early in life. Like the water a fish swims in, they just seem to have always …

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Generative vs. Depleting Sex

Apr 11, 2012
nnBy Nirmala N.nI can think back to a recent experience of being with my lover and relish the details as they unfold in my memory: he strums my clit as if I am a precious stringed instrument, hushed to an almost soundless vibrato, my musicality only known to him. He is a practiced virtuoso in the …

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The Latest Development in my OM Practice

Apr 6, 2012
nnAs a stroker, I often find myself in a mode of “doing” – I am “at cause” giving the stroke, and my partner is “at effect” of my cause, receiving the stroke.nnIt starts with my stroke: Up or down, lighter or harder. I feel how it is received and then I stroke again, and so goes the exchange of …

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The Next Big Wave: Men

Apr 4, 2012
nnBy Billy S. nnImagine paddling out past the breakers on a windy morning. The swell is 8 feet high. Half of the beach is covered in white water. It’s high tide. You can’t even get into the water for the set that’s coming in because the under toe and breaks are so fierce they spit you right back …

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The Layer Between Us

Apr 3, 2012
nnBy Lianna L.nnIt starts. There is moment when he is inside of me, and I can feel something deep open and come in contact with something deep inside him. I can feel them mingle together. They speak to each other elegantly while we grunt like animals on the outside. And then, we are lying next to …

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Living the Dream

Mar 31, 2012
nnBy Lianna L.nnThere is a story that society sells to little girls. A man will save you one day, he will scoop you up out of your humdrum life and rescue you. You will have a fabulous wedding full of pink things and frills. The rest of your life will be happily ever after in a nice house with …

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Sex After Sobriety

Mar 29, 2012
nn nnI got sober about 5 months after starting an OM practice. They say the age an addict starts using at, is the age at which they stunt their emotional maturity. When I heard that I understood, why after the superpowers of alcohol and drugs were stripped away, I went from feeling like I could …

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