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Why Women Lie

Oct 31, 2013
Day after day I hear a complaint from men who I coach. It goes a little something like this: “Why doesn’t she just come out and tell me the truth?” No matter what the subject, no matter what the lie was, they sit there as arbiters of the law with their arms folded and legs crossed feeling that …

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My Orgasmic Life: High Sensation

Oct 31, 2013
I am Amy and this is my orgasmic life. …

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Polyamory, Gothic Texts, and My Orgasmic Heart

Oct 30, 2013
The text I received the other day from a man I'd recently fallen in love with read like a cross between an aphorism by the medieval mystic Meister Eckhart and a darkly erotic Angela Carter novel. I mean, the passage was truly harrowing: it melded transcendent sexual ecstasy with rending, St. …

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Rate Your Sex

Oct 29, 2013
I can think back to a recent experience of being with my lover and relish the details as they unfold in my memory: he strums my clit as if I am a precious stringed instrument, hushed to an almost soundless vibrato, my musicality only known to him. He is a practiced virtuoso in the art of eliciting …

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My Orgasmic Life: Teacher of Orgasm

Oct 29, 2013
My Name is Robert and this is my orgasmic …

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That Guy You Hate: An Unlikely Love Story

Oct 28, 2013
There was a man in my community that I couldn’t stand. I found him to be annoying at best—overbearing, pushy, and revolting at worst. Based on his age, style of dress, and physical characteristics I would never have imagined myself to be attracted to him—ever. He met none of my list of preferences …

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I OM. The Story of Michael

Oct 25, 2013
Before I started to OM, I never knew just how powerful women were—electrically, psychically, intuitively. I've been practicing Orgasmic Meditation for three months and I've been experiencing "power transfers"—a transfer of her power through her clit, up my finger, and into the depths of …

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13 Steps to a Better Orgasm

Oct 24, 2013
The jury may still be out on what exactly makes a woman get into the zone of that near-mythical, perfect-three-octave kind of orgasm. But here in the wilderness of turn-on, orgasm is a state of mind rather than a climactic souvenir you pick up at the sexy carnival. Given the variations in sexual …

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Cock Sucking for Her Pleasure

Oct 22, 2013
There is the standard cock sucking narrative we all familiarly tolerate: the kind of blowing that sucks. The kind that follows the pop song structure: verse chorus verse bridge gag moan climax. The gag really is a gag—it's theater for the home performer. When the giver is an actress then you, the …

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How to Put the Big O Back Into Your LTR

Oct 21, 2013
Bottom line: With most couples, when the honeymoon is over, they find themselves in the kind of stalemate that they'll either ultimately break out of or that'll eventually turn into a cold war—most likely, without them even …

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