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9 Ways to Relax a Woman's Vigilance Center

Jan 17, 2014
What does a mother yelling to her child "don't poke your eye out!," a woman feeling cautious on a first date, and a meerkat have in common? They are illustrations of the vigilance center. The vigilance center, associated with the amygdala in your brain, is the part of your brain …

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5 Different Kinds of Men in Relationship

Jan 15, 2014
Suzanne Lachmann in Psychology Today explains the 5 different categories that men tend to fall into in terms of how they relate to a romantic partner. There's the Commitment man, the Controller, the Guy Who's Not Ready to Settle Down, the Dependent, and the Solitary man. It's fun to read this …

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Sensation and the Stroker, Peaks and Valleys, Probabilities, and Ken's Wisdom Illuminated

Jan 14, 2014
In an earlier piece, Bio-Electric Fields of the Clitoris, I described how sensation is transmitted from the strokee’s clitoris to the stroker’s finger by means of electromagnetic induction, or better put in the words of Reese Jones when he heard my idea, inductive coupling. What can we say about …

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Desire and Uncertainty

Jan 11, 2014
“As human beings, not only do we seek resolution, but we also feel that we deserve resolution. However, not only do we not deserve resolution, we suffer from resolution. We don't deserve resolution; we deserve something better than that... an open state of mind that can relax with paradox and …

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The Beauty of Self-Revelation

Jan 10, 2014
I have never known how much of myself it’s safe to share with a lover. Or anyone else, for that matter. I was raised with the implicit belief that any kind of sharing was over-sharing, and that revelation of one’s tremulous emotional state was indulgent to the point of being overwrought, …

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Jeff DeGraff Believes the Millennial Generation Will Put an End to Marriage, Capitalism and Religion

Jan 9, 2014
Jeff DeGraff published an article on LinkedIn about how the millennial generation are far more progressive than previous generations, and speculates on the impact their future leadership will have on society. “I learned from some of the most credible researchers on the planet that our children …

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A New Orgasm Law Has Been Passed

Jan 9, 2014
Fake Mustache Films produced a short film that depicts a town hall meeting, where men are freaking out that a new law has been passed - The Female Orgasm …

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6 Reasons You Should Sleep Naked

Jan 8, 2014
Getting your beauty sleep in the buff sounds like a great way to feel sexy—at least, in theory. But believe it or not, recent studies have revealed that only 10% of people, singles and couples included, get down to commando or less when they're spinning in REM cycle. Even though OM operates on the …

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My Experience Having an Orgasm in an MRI Machine. (And the Difference Between Orgasm and Climax)

Jan 6, 2014
Orgasm is my favorite mystery. What is it really? Do we all experience it the same way? Do we all feel the same familiar sensations? Is it purely an incentive to procreate or is it more? An incentive to connect? A means through which we fully embody the beast within us? Or touch God? Or is it all …