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Tainted L-Word: What Love Isn't

Jul 2, 2015
I lie in bed staring at the ceiling. The nude body of a woman I recently met quietly snores beside me. I run through my mind the sex that just happened at the urge I almost released. It was close. Why did I almost say that? For as long as I've been sexually active, I've been ashamed of a …

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The Dark Side of the Moon of Partnership

Jun 29, 2015
We all have unsung allies. Unknowing accomplices in our liberation, they poke us where we've fallen asleep. Then it's all tingles and sharp aches as we come out of numbness. In OMs, the thawing feels like glass shards. The first thing we feel, when we feel again, is pain. My partner in this …

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Penetrating with Love, Moving vs Touching

Jun 29, 2015
I stand before a thirty-person semi-circle. Tonight I'm giving a talk titled "Penetrating with Love," which I initially define as saying the unsaid truth that pierces through a person's ego delusions to allow you to connect. The title of the talk is actually redundant, I explain, as one …

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A Prayer for the Women I Know

Jun 29, 2015
Perhaps I should confess. Or rather, more than a confession, what I’m about to share is akin to a prayer. Yes. Sitting across from each woman at my workshop, on the surface, it looks like I’m merely studying each of them—examining a mouth set in determination and studious attention on this one, …

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Orgasm vs Climax

Jun 22, 2015
*The First Desire Sutra* **“Life is Orgasm”** Orgasm is not just the spark of climax most of us experience, but the underlying fire that produces it. It is the current that animates the entire display of life. It’s a currency that we must learn to work with – like money. At this essential …

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An Achiever's Guide to the Desire Sutras

Jun 11, 2015
“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - attributed to Albert Einstein “pitfall (noun) (1) A hidden or unsuspected danger or difficulty. (2) A lightly covered and unnoticeable …

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Are You A Bitch Or Are You Just Unfiltered? - I OM Talks with Nicole Daedone

Apr 29, 2015
Nicole talks about what it's like to pretend, and then what it's like to be fully who you are, especially when that bumps into who someone else who then is challenged to be themselves. What would it be like to be the incentive for people for being in their own perfection? Want more of Nicole …

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What's up with frames?

Apr 28, 2015
So what’s up with Frames? And what about Noticing- what’s the point? Isn’t there some sort of secret, esoteric meaning buried in the lost scrolls of OM? Well, we may never know. But some ideas are out there. As someone who has stroked more pussy than Wilt Chamberlain and Fidel Castro combined …

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Hunger - I OM Talks with Nicole Daedone

Apr 4, 2015
Nicole Daedone, founder of OneTaste and creator of the practice called Orgasmic Meditation, gives her take on how, as a culture, we do not let ourselves be fed on our way to finding "The One" and the cost being oxytocin deprived. Want more of Nicole Daedone live, click …

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Connection - I OM Talks with Nicole Daedone

Apr 3, 2015
Nicole Daedone, founder of OneTaste and creator of the practice called Orgasmic Meditation, gives her take on how to get free when you're desperate for someone's attention. Want more of Nicole Daedone live, click …