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The Killing Edge: Relationship In The Raw

Nov 16, 2015
In April 2014, I began the Coaching Program (CP) offered by OneTaste. I was two years out of my marriage, re-learning to navigate the world of dating and sex. I was new to OM, having just learned three weeks before. I decided to dive deep and do CP right away because a voice inside said yes, the …

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87 Things I Learned In The OneTaste Coaching Program

Nov 15, 2015
When I talk to people about the OneTaste Coaching Program, they often ask what I got out of it. And just as often, I become lost as I consider how to answer. The sheer magnitude of my transformation through the six months of intense self-discovery and learning is difficult to put into a few …

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My Darkness Is Also My Truth

Nov 14, 2015
When I thought to share this I felt fear as well as excitement. It’s like dark pockets of my soul get to come out and be witnessed, and it’s also crazy to share those spots. I think of the aversion to the darkness we are conditioned to, and that I work hard on being free and finding my way out of …

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In Love and Relationship, Truth is Not About "The Facts"

Nov 13, 2015
In our Western culture, facts rule. They are evidence, and evidence is the foundation of any argument, point, or truth. Evidence is what we use to make a judgment of what is right and what is wrong. But we all have things in our lives that we know, that we feel, that are counter to the facts …

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Limbic Connection, The Way We Feel Each Other Beyond Words

Nov 12, 2015
The practice of Orgasmic Meditation builds the ability to feel limbic connection: that instinctual, feeling resonance we have with everything around us. It’s a natural, animal skill that has atrophied in most human adults. Seven months ago I rescued a timid, traumatized puppy, not realizing the …

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Apotheosis : The High, Still Point of Orgasm

Nov 12, 2015
Climbing, climbing, up and up and up, my fingertip brushes her clit so lightly. She reaches, groans, re-arranging the tides to pull my finger in deeper in to her spot. I keep my finger steady, fortified to my hand, letting my fingertip do what it wants, anything so long as I don’t give in. Not …

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Rewiring My Mind, Clearing the Clutter

Nov 11, 2015
Clutter. I’m the first to admit I’m not the tidiest person. Quite the opposite, in fact; I’m quite messy. For most of my life it didn’t bother me, or at least that’s what I told myself. Looking back at it now, and given the language I’ve learned through Orgasmic Meditation, it’s probably more …

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10 Things I’ve Learned in a Relationship for Wake-up

Nov 11, 2015
Throughout most of my life I believed in finding “The One.” It was a rite of passage I hoped to reach sometime in between landing the right career and buying a house. But if it came before the career, or after the house, and the house looked more like a chic urban loft, that might be alright too. …

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The Perfection in My Imperfection - Part of Falling is Learning

Nov 10, 2015
I treat Bikram yoga the same way I treat eating vegetables and doing sitting meditation; I instinctually hate it but begrudgingly accept the benefits and push through the resistance. I’m the chubby one in the back of the room whose breast size makes “touch your forehead to your knee” a laughable …

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No One Is Coming to Save You - And That's A Very Good Thing

Nov 9, 2015
"No one is coming to save you, but it is not because you are unloved. To the contrary: You are so revered, so adored, so magnificent, that to send to you a savior would be to destroy your opportunity to become what you are in truth, to realize yourself fully, in the glory of your divine …

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