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I Believe

Sep 26, 2016
Nov 2, 2011 It struck me that there are certain beliefs that are normative that I simply don't hold. And others that are not, that are primary in my life. I found myself trying to contort myself into all of these very uncomfortable positions, trying to look like I was operating by the …

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His and Hers

Sep 23, 2016
Sept 20, 2010 I think it’s safe to say that I spend a lot of time on Facebook. I love following links and reading articles, which I subsequently quote as if I know what I’m talking about. My editor friend Kelly always wants to know where I heard such and such a statistic that says—I don’t …

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What Triggers The Orgasm State

Sep 20, 2016
What Triggers The Orgasm State? We’ve all experienced the linear, goal-oriented Orgasm 1.0 and how it doesn’t give us the nourishment we’re seeking. In the moment, it provides a sense of relief, but it has diminishing returns. For example, if you drink alcohol after work to relieve stress, …

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As Above, So (Very Different) Below: On the Masculine and Feminine

Sep 19, 2016
Recently I was reading an article about male-female dynamics that said the number one complaint women have about men is that all guys want is sex. The number two complaint is that he doesn’t even know what he’s doing once he gets there. The man’s number one complaint, for his part, was that …

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What's the Role in Sexuality in Enhancing Our Lives?

Sep 17, 2016
Former US Surgeon General, Dr. Joycelyn Elders, spoke at the final weekend of OneTaste's CP 11 program in Los Angeles on Sept. Here's what she had to say about the role of sexuality in enhancing our lives! And don't forget to subscribe to the OneTaste Youtube Channel!! *(Photo Credit: UMN …

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What's OM Like the First Time Around

Sep 15, 2016
January 5, 2011 Lots of guys are trying OM for the first time right now, thanks to Tim Ferriss and the chapter “The 15-Minute Female Orgasm” in The 4-Hour Body. And hundreds of people have watched our new How To OM video, How to OM. So what’s it like to be brand-new at OM? Adam H. just tried it …

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The Orgasm State

Sep 14, 2016
The Orgasm State Everyone is familiar with Orgasm 1.0 - the brief moments of climax and release, signified by ejaculation in men and contractions of the vaginal muscles in women. Orgasm 1.0 is linear, progressive, and has a clear finale, followed by a drop in energy. You could say it builds a lot …

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8 Reflections on Intimacy

Sep 10, 2016
September 12, 2010 We usually reserve the word intimacy to describe the relationship that develops when we and another fall mutually in love. We open our hearts, our minds and our senses to our beloved, and they open to us in return. Connecting in this way makes us feel special and …

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What is OM

Sep 7, 2016
We're starting a new series of posts, giving more the ground level experience of OM, the basics of the practice and what one might expect as a beginner (and even as a seasoned) practitioner, from heightened sensitivity to sensation to the ability to handle the everyday with more aplomb. What Is …

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Why is OM Mutually Beneficial

Sep 5, 2016
The Biological Incentive: The Feminine - Masculine Dance Why is OM mutually beneficial? We will use the example of a female monkey for this one. Female monkeys have what is called estrous. Whenever a female monkey is in estrous, a male monkey will travel up to 200 miles to get to her. This …