The Journey of Always: Self Love
by Lisa Meuser Feb 28, 2016
I hadn’t OM’d with him in months. A lot has happened since then. But today is today, and he’s due shortly. Thoughts of canceling spring up, but something is being called forth, and I listen to the call to stay on course with the agreement to OM.
I peruse the underlying unsettledness. Where am I in life? My boyfriend. My father. My daughter. My work. Where am I? Who am I? What do I want and need? What’s being called from the depths?
I search for intentions for this OM. In a split second they roll on through: I want clarity and understanding. I want connection. I want to be wanted. I want to be loved. I want love. I’ve hit the jackpot: love. Yes, i want love from others but I want so much more. I want what is being called for in every moment, the journey of always: self love.
I’ve got a client scheduled on the heels of this OM, so I’m on strict timeline. I let my OM partner know, and we get down to it. As we start the grounding process I bring my intention into attention and breath it in - receiving, being open to, and curiosity about experiencing and perceiving self love. There’s some awkwardness as his fingers become reacquainted with my pussy and the OM’ing structure - this is his third OMing with me, and his third OM ever. I’m wondering what’s going on down there and it becomes apparent that it's time to make requests. Confident and knowing, requests come out of my mouth, instructing him on what to do with as much precision as I can find. He is willing.
Moments of explosions start to happen. The requests keep coming, and he keeps taking them in. The orgasmic flow has started to trickle, and I’m turned on. My vocal cords vibrate and sounds emit. My body is undulating. I’m in heaven, and heaven is about to get even better as more fine tuned requests surface. I also let him know that he’s doing great - because he really is. My system is relaxed, my vigilance centers undetected, and I’m feeling openness and the sweet rise of climax.
My whole body is alive: my legs, my clit, around my body, up through my core, and out my mouth. My intention flickers in and out of awareness - how I’m noticing self love comes into my attention, and it becomes apparent how the whole OM is one big expression of self love. I’ve been honoring and loving myself through this entire OM: my willingness and readiness to make request after request, my body surrendering, my heart opening, my pelvic floor softening, my expanded awareness, my vocal expressions, my undulations, and my overall letting go and taking in - they are all ways I have opened myself up to experiencing and perceiving self love. I am honored to know myself in this way. I am grateful to pay homage to my being in such a way.
The second bell rings and his finger is still doing upstrokes. I suspect he doesn’t want to interrupt my very obvious orgasm flow and doesn’t know what to do. I notice that I’m once again right on the edge of breaking the container and forgoing distinctions because I’m really enjoying the pleasure so much. Catching this pattern is another show of self love, and then acting on it - telling him that he needs to move on to the down strokes and grounding - is yet another expression of self love. For me, it’s actually profound. Making distinctions is such an obvious way to love myself, to truly honor myself, and they are often what gets thrown out the window. Thank you distinctions. Thank you find tuned attention. Thank you self love.
We part ways, and I run up the stairs to my first Zoom client. I am flushed. I am turned on. I am alive. And I am love.
Lisa's other OM writings can be found on her blog, Tasting One.
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