I am going through this thing with my husband by Rosa M.
by OneTaste Living Library Nov 4, 2012
I am going through this thing with my husband where I don't want to have the same kind of sex we've been having. It's like, we will be making love... He's amazing at starting out slow and making it so I'm really wet and can't wait to get fucking. And then we're getting into it and the sensation gets high and he seems to respond by going harder and faster, and I'm like, no, keep going slow. And, it happens again, and again. And, I get frustrated and I just say, I'm full, no more. And, then he gets upset and says he doesn't believe me that I'm full. And, the truth is that I'm not. It's just that I have to do the work to explain how my body feels so much more sensitive and receptive since we are OMing a lot more. And, the hard fucking that I used to LUUUUURVE is now numbing my sensation, and depleting my energy. And, I don't want that. So I know I have to ask for what I want more deliberately and consistently, and patiently allow him to receive that and adjust. I need to say something like, when the energy gets high in our sex, don't go faster and harder, but stay there with me in the intensity, and feel it, and look it my eyes, and see how much I am feeling it, and keep stroking deliberately, feeling every stoke.